After my mother died in June, I went through lost of family pictures, including some from over a hundred years ago. It made me reflect on the people portrayed in them, thinking of who they were at the time they were photographed.

It’s a full-length portrait, head to foot. He wears a dark suit, white shirt, and white bow-tie. He bends his arms behind his back, hands out of sight, the pose that’s favored by the awkward. She stands beside him, dressed in white from neck to just above her ankles. She seems to lean towards him the slightest bit. I’m quite sure who they are, though they don’t look like the people I remember. In the days to come, he would grow his waist and lose his hair; her face would hibernate behind thick glasses. I see them through a grandchild’s eyes but that is not the people whom they always were. Unmoored once, they got to freely walk around the city, imagining the places they might live, the people they might meet and marry, and the man or woman each would come to be. I would have liked to travel back across the vast sea of time to meet them then: I wonder what our conversation might have been.
October 30, 2022 at 2:41 am
Hello Bob, it’s good to hear from you. How are you?
October 30, 2022 at 9:20 pm
Doing pretty well. I’ve decided I should move near family, so I’m planning to move to Milwaukee, where my oldest son lives, in January. It won’t be a particularly easy move, but will be easier now than it would be if I wait until I really need help. How are you?
October 31, 2022 at 1:40 am
I’m glad to hear you will be closer to family and I hope the move goes well.
I’m doing pretty well – just about recovered from a double round of COVID. I haven’t felt much like writing lately – I hope that changes.
Grace and peace to you…